Grandma told the best stories about her family - especially
the one about her grandfather, who was born well before that awful war that
pitted neighbor against neighbor and
brother against brother. Later it became known as the War of Northern
Aggression in the South and the Civil War in the North.
She told how
Grandpa Jones' family lived on a big plantation with numerous slaves and lost everything due to the War. She made the events sound as if they happened
yesterday, but were those stories true?
Grandma
wouldn't lie to you, would she?
Nooo. Grandma wouldn't stretch
things a bit, would she? Welll, maybe. It all sounded like she knew what happened and believed it to be true, but did she have
the story right? How do we find out the truth?
Searching for the truth behind family stories means we check every possible record to find out what really happened. Do our results agree with the family stories?
I love family stories. They are fun and they give personality to people long deceased, but they often get embellished when told, retold, and told again. Sometimes
stories are only partially true or maybe they are rooted in events that happened to someone else. When you hear
these stories, write them down, along with the name of the narrator and the
date, but put them in the category of Family Stories until you do your research. There is one more thing you need to do. Write the real story, citing sources for all facts uncovered in your research, and be sure to share the information with others researching the same family.
Now, go on - record those stories and set out to determine if they are true!
Published 11 December 2014, Western Kentucky Genealogy Blog, http://wkygenealogy.blogspot.com/